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  • Counseling is specialized guidance-related advices and suggestions which are extremely useful in handling difficult life situations and personal crisis

How will I know if I need counseling ? : If you are suffering from the following problems, then you will surely benefit from counseling :

  • Job pressure
  • Academic stress
  • Lack of confidence
  • Anger
  • Weak personality
  • Shock reactions following stressful incidents 
  • Adjustment problems
  • Relationship difficulties
  • Poor communication skills
  • Lack of assertiveness
  • Interpersonal & family frictions
  • Anxiety
  • Depressive tendencies
  • Poor motivation
  • Reduced work performance
  • Sexual problems

How many sessions are required if I decide to go for counseling ? : It entirely depends on the seriousness of the problems. However, the number of sessions can vary from a single session to more than 20 sessions, and in certain cases, longer than that.

Does counseling help ? : Yes. it helps in a great way ! The success of counseling depends on cooperation and regularity in attending counseling sessions

  • All of us have certain inclinations, aptitudes, intelligence levels, specific ways of thinking and various mental inadequacies, which are quite difficult to gauge from outside. There are times when it becomes necessary to know those qualities for the purpose of understanding a person better or devising a therapy. These are the situations when psychological tests are indicated in order to be certain about the functioning of an individual.
  • Psychological Tests are meant to reveal the mental working, abilities and the personality of an individual
  • Psychological Tests are required for students and individuals with poor academic performance, personality problems, adjustment difficulties and diagnostic uncertainties.
  • Such tests are of various kinds, namely, IQ tests, Personality Tests, Diagnostic Tests & Achievement Tests
  • A marriage to be successful require the right mix of love, affection, caring and understanding. When a couple decides to get married, they are often keen to know if their marriage will work out or not, particularly in relation to their background, nature, attitude and job. This is precisely the importance of Pre-Marriage Counseling in modern-day life
  • Pre-marriage counseling is for those couples who are planning to get married and are interested in knowing if their marriage is going to be successful or not.

Who should come for pre-marriage counseling ? It is for those couples :

1) who want to know if they are compatible

2) who want to sort out differences before they get married

3) who are keen to know and learn how to make a marriage work

4) who are eager to find out if their marriage will work out

Is pre-marriage counseling effective ? :  Yes, it is very helpful provided the advices are followed properly and the suggestions are taken with an open mind and are put to use correctly. If pre-marriage counseling is undertaken at least 3 months prior to marriage, more than 70% of marriages are saved from break-up or divorce.

  • Marriages are very fragile by nature. It requires a great deal of understanding and commitment to make it work. But in the modern times, no one seems to be prepared to give their best in marriages. As long as a marriage is working fine, there is no worry; but the moment a crisis sets in, the whole system bares its internal instabilities. A marriage then becomes a war between two people. Once conflicts erupt, the whole marriage increasingly becomes unstable. This is a situation when either there is a relationship stalemate or constant fights over issues which become more and more complicated owing to accusations, counter-accusations and lack of conflict resolution. At this juncture a warring couple needs professional help to save their marriage. This is precisely where the importance and necessity of marital therapy come into play.
  • Marital Therapy is for those couples who are having major problems in the marriage.

What kind of problems can occur in a marriage? : Problems which commonly occur in marriages are :

  • Lack of trust
  • Suspiciousness
  • Inadequate or faulty communication
  • Anger
  • Dominating behaviour
  • Constant cribbing
  • Misunderstanding
  • Violence
  • Physical or sexual abuse
  • Extramarital affairs  

Is Marital Therapy useful ? Yes, it is very helpful provided the couple is genuinely motivated to work on their relationship and make it work.

  • Many kinds of psychological problems can occur in children and youngsters. This problems require proper attention. This problems can range from just minor temper tantrums, falling in bad company, defiance, arrogance, obsessive-compulsive behavior to much serious deliberate self-injury and destructive behavior. Most parents tend to underestimate the seriousness of such problems, thinking that they are temporary problems which will go away once the child grows up. Unfortunately, in most cases these problems continue to linger, and if left untreated, they finally become very serious, warranting immediate treatment.
  • Child & Adolescent Guidance Clinic is for those children and teenagers who are having academic, behavioral, adjustment and conduct problems.

What kind of problems are treated here ? Problems which are treated here are :

  • Stealing
  • Lying
  • Anger
  • Violent behaviour
  • Emotional problems
  • Adjustment problems
  • Academic decline & disinclination
  • Sexual problems
  • Disobedience
  • Rebelliousness 

Is the therapy effective ? Yes, it is very useful, provided the child / teenager is cooperative and the family takes active participation in the therapy.

How long does this therapy continue ? It all depends on the gravity and complexity of the case; however it requires a number counseling sessions

  • A Family is the most vital element in any human society. A  family is the place where a child is born, grows up, learns values and finally evolves to be a healthy and mature individual. Without a family and it’s formative influences, none of us would be what we are. Unfortunately, a faulty family can have harmful and negative impact on all the family members including children.

Problems which are commonly seen in families :

  • Strained relationships
  • Misunderstanding
  • Over-critical parental attitude
  • Over-involvement
  • Excessive pampering
  • Faulty communication
  • Alcoholic parents
  • Oppressive atmosphere
  • Lack of discipline 
  • Power struggle
  • Internal politics
  • Physical fights
  • Sexual assaults

Family Therapy is meant for families who are having complex problems and interpersonal friction or where a particular family member is having psychological difficulties because of problems inside the family.

 

Is family therapy effective ? Yes, it is very useful provided all the family members take part in the therapy without any mental block.

  • Sexual problems have always afflicted us, but in the modern times, owing to massive stress buildup, a large number of men and women are suffering from a wide variety of sexual problems. Sexual difficulties can put enormous pressure on the victim and the couple, thus making the problem even more serious and complicated. Sexual problems can begin owing to personal stress, strained relationship or anxiety pertaining to sexual performance. In many cases, sexual problems are precipitated by external stressors, prejudice, drug abuse, alcoholism, lack of commitment and even extramarital affairs. When sexual problems continue for a long time, it eats into the fabric of the relationship and destroys it totally. Impotence is a serious problem now and many couples are unable to go the family way because of poor sexual life.
  • Most sexual problems require professional help.
  • Sexual Health Clinic is for those individuals and couples whose relationships are running into serious difficulties because of sexual problems and mental problems. It is also for those individuals or couples who are unable to conceive because of sexual problems.

Problems which are treated in Sexual Health Clinic :

  • Insufficient sexual knowledge
  • Faulty sexual practices
  • Inadequate or excessive sexual desire
  • Erection problem
  • Fast ejaculation
  • Frigidity
  • Painful sexual intercourse
  • Sexual deviations
  • Alternative sexual preferences
  • Are such therapies effective ?  : Yes, they are very effective, provided the individual or the couple is cooperative and follows the advices given with an open mind.
  • What does the treatment involve ?  : The treatment consists of detailed evaluation and relevant tests like blood tests, ultra-sonography, sperm analysis followed by psycho-education & supportive counseling.
  • Do you have to go naked for any examination ? : No. You are not required to take off your clothes. However, if required, all female patients are examined by female doctors or female attendants.